There is a general tendency with all the persons to postpone their important works/items casually, but not intensionally. This is not a bad habbit but a routine lapse on the part of many individuals. Completing the work on hand immediately is a best habit to any of the person. Making the items of work pending days together is not a healthy aspect. It is better to finish the work on hand immediately, and try to finish the tomorrow's work today. It will give you a peace of mind altogether in your entire day, and makes happy with plenty of joy. Many people, casually, postpone their works on hand to next day without any interest. Keeping mind on our works gives you a sigh of relief. Some of the items of work which are usually keep all persons pending finalization are listed below:
1. Posting letters in the Post box
2. Posting credit card cheques in the Drop boxes
3. Posting of applications for job requirements
4. Payment of telephone and Electricity bills
5. Visiting Exhibitions/Shopping Centres
6. Visiting holy places on piligramage as per schedule
7. Taking family members to Important visiting places
8. Keeping the promises made to children
9 Visiting friend's or relatives houses
10. Clearing of debts.
Generally, all people deliberately postpone the work of posting letters in the post box, advertently or inadvertently. Writing letters to friends and relatives also postponed. If we want to send a letter to any body, let us first finish that work and move further. Postponing the same is something not correct. If the work is not completed, the same pending work will be continued further without completion. If there is need to write a letter or post a letter to some body, let it be finished immediately without postponement, which will render happiness on you and gives a sigh of relief that one work is completed.
Secondly, posting of credit card cheque payments. Naturally all credit cards will give the pay by date for payment. Most commonly, all the people wait till the last date of payment. It is not a healthy practice. You have to forget about the last date. When once the statement of account received, immediately turn to action for dropping the cheque in the drop box, so that one work will be completed. It is not that item of work to ignore. At any time, you have to pay the amount. You cannot escape. But the thing is that if you finish the work immediately, you have a big sigh of relief and mental satisfaction. If you postpone the work, the same will be continued further and will lead to further complications. To avoid future complications, it is better to drop the cheque immediately without any delay.
Thirdly, sending applications for job requirements. Many a people, after seeing the advertisements for job opportunities, keep the matters pending days together till the prescribed last date for receipt of the filled in applications. It is not correct. When we want to apply for a post on an advertisement, immediately, you have to get the application form and fill up and post it on the same day without waiting for the last date prescribed. In case you keep the matter pending till the last date prescrined for redeipt, there are many chances that may come come in your way for submision of applications and sometimes, circumstances may not permit you to send application on that day. Sometimes, there may be Hartals, Bundhs, Srikes, Traffic Jaams, Money problems etc., which causes hurdles for you to submit the applications on the last date. So, it is quite correct for any body to make an application immediately after finding an advertisement, and see that the work is finished on the same day and feel a sigh of relief.
Fourthly, making payments to Telephone and Electricity. In these case also, there is a general tendency of all people to wait till the pay by date. It is more important to settle the bills on hand without waiting for pay by date, which gives you a good sigh of relief.
Fifthly, visiting exhibitiions and shopping centres. Most people, generally, fix a date for visiting exhibitions and shopping centres for purchases or others. But generally, many a time, people postpone this item of work, with an intension to try next day. If you are interested, or willing or intended, you have to go to see the exhibitions and shopping centres, so that one item of work will be finished. If this is kept pending, many more pending works will be added together and this item of happy ocassional work will not be fruitful. Though it is not necessarily required, but the work will be kept pending and a mental dissatisfaction will always remind you about the failure of visit to the required place. Mental dissatisfaction will cause you unhappyness and giddiness.
Sixthly, Many people fix schedules to go to holy places on piligramage. If you fix the date for journey, try to make all necessary arrangements to get the journey commenced as per scehdule. However, it is linked up with money matter, but you have to take out a strategic plan to perform the journey with all the requirements to be ready in advance. If you fix the programme, it is your bounden duty to perform the journey at any not, excepting the emergency circumstances, so that one type of work will be completed. If you once postponed this, the postponement will be continued further and it will be a lapsed item of work in your dairy.
Seventhly, taking family members to the important places. Generally, many people gives promisses to their family members to go to that place, and this place on such and such a date, but failed to stick on their promise on account of various reasons, beyond their control. Though it is an item of work related to the family, it is better you have to take out a strategic plan for visiting important places once in a year, and fix the period of journey, which is convenveine to all the family members of yours, so that every body will be prepared to perform the journy in a happy mood. Aftrer announcing the journey place and date, postponement of the programme, not only gives disappointment among the family memebers, but also make you to feel insult before family members for failure to perform journey.
Eighthly, keeping up the promises made to children. It is not only sentimental, but also dignification. Many people made severl promised to their children to take them to the important places, or to give them what they want, or to purchase some items for them. Children easily relied upon their parents that they will get some new items. But after giving promisses, so many people inadvertently, failed to fulfill those promises, because of unforseen circumstances, and other valid reasons for them due to their pre-occupation on some other items of work. Naturally, the children disappoint severely. So, before making promise on this, plese alert on your timings, circumstances and further happenings so that you may take nice decisions on the promises of children. Very casually, many parents, refuse to fulfill the promises made to their children, because of their heavy work. But this kind of dissappoointment to their children may lead them to most dissatisfaction and laziness.
Ninthly, visiting friends or relatives houses. Though it is not important and needy work, but this an item of work to be attened to, when intended to do so. Most of the people wanted to visit their friends or relatives houses on holidays, sundays, and fix some dates and times, but when the date comes, they will simply forget about their programme and failed to perform this act. Though it is not essential but it is a normal course of work, that will give you a mental satisfaction and joy in your life. Sharing of feelings of friends and relatives is also one of the good items of work to be performed without postponement.
Lastly, clearance of debts. Though it is a bounden duty of any individual to clear of his dues, but many a people wantonely or unwantonly, postpone this item of work for a further date. This is not actually a good habit. When you are supposed to clear a debt, you have to make your own arrangements to get the work done on priority basis and see that the debts are cleared as early as possible without any postponement. It will give a sigh or relief and mental satisfaction and joy in your life. It is remove mental burden on you, when you think of this to complete this work immediately when required. This will also fecilitate the other individual, firm or company to assess your conduct and charecter in dealing such items of work.
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