Friday, February 22, 2008

Teasing Culture among School kids

The teasing culture is something common among all school children. The main reasons that are existed for the existence of the teasing culture among the children, are their family background, social status, Financial background, Family background, Political background, behavioural changes, jealousy, intolerance etc. Many a children tend to tease their counterparts in the schools, colleges, to derive temporary happiness and to show themselves in a highhanded manner to live and behave.
Thia bad tendency prevails not only in boys but also in girls. Boys may tease girls as well as boys, and the girls may tease boys as well as girls. Some of the common teasings are ' commenting adversely on their counterparts about their dress, behaviour, culture, personal appearances, academic backwardness, family backwardness, late coming to schools and colleges, bitterness, enemity, anxiety, over enthusiasm, over confidence, over indulgence, over temperment etc.". Children feel little bit joy and happiness on this tendency.

To avoid this kind of bad tendencies, the authorities of the Educational Institutions have to take corrective steps at the early moment. Keen observation of the childre is quite important by all the teachers as well as the Head of the Institution to put an end to this type of teasingness among the school kids. The fecility and opportunity available only to the teachers to curtail this bad tacts. A good teacher normally observe the behavior of the children and keep an eye on them ever where to find out the unhappy incidents. The teacher should try to inculcate social values and systems and behaviour attitude and aptitude among the children. Some of the children, because of the shy or fear or for any other social reason, may not bring these teasing incidents to the authorities, but silently facing inconveniences and troubles. It is the primary responsibility of a teacher to educate the children about the common things that are existed in the society and try to curtail the differential attitude of the children who tease others, and should give him a good lesson about the overall behaviour of the children in the society as a whole and in the school in partiuclar and try to mould them to be far awary from this type of teasingnesses. Children automatically understand the feelings of the teachers about their behaviour and try to mould their charector and tendencies in a better way to have a good relationship with their counterparts.

Many more instances are not come to light, because many of our elders thought that this is a small and silly thing to be noted. But the behaviour and culture of the children will develop in such a way detrimental to their future career and development, and therefore, there is dire need to correct such type of children who tend to tease others as a casual manner to gain joy and happiness. The affected children feel unhappy and their minds are set up with such kind of unhappiness and their feeling hurted in such a way that their mental feelings get disturbed and thus leads to their deterioration in their academic career, not only for the present but also in future.

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